Man you gotta hold yourself together
Aih, I feel like this blog's sole purpose now is for me to vent my negative feelings. Sometime in the future, I will look back and laugh at myself for sure.
Anyway I got to know this one guy which is in Engineering Physics too through an engineering project. At first he was just alright to me, he seems nice but not too interesting to me. This year I happen to share some same courses with me. I am taking 8 courses this term (well effectively 6 since I basically ignored 1 unless there is midterms and another one is just a one-credit course) and I have been trying to be more involved in the Seri Malaysia Club's events. Anyway we just pulled off this event tonight with another 5 South East Asian clubs which was pretty awesome. To get a rough idea, see http://eatseafood.blogspot.com/.
But anyway back to the main topic, even though I'm busy as hell, I try to get my work done by myself right. And this guy has been asking me about assignments for these past few weeks now. And he has been asking me to just give him my assignments just the day before/on which the assignment is due. He even texted me, msned me and asked me face-to-face to give him my assignment, which is really annoying.... I mean once or twice it's ok, but if you keep asking people for their assignment solution it's unacceptable to me. I mean come on dude, how hard is that assignment that you are always so desperate to get the solutions right before it's due. You're in engineering physics man, and it's not for slackers. And if you wanna slack go ahead it's your choice, leave me alone. I don't care about your excuses, whether if it's bad time management yada yada.... Just stop harassing me! And he never talks to me unless it's about borrowing assignments.... I guess that's why it's bothering me so much... this guy is just using me for solutions. If it's a friend whom I usually talk to and exchange solutions with, then it's totally fine... because we complement each other. Whereas this guy, he's just a leech and it's a one-way interaction....
Aih, I know if I think about it rationally then his fault might be minor. But I'm so tired of thinking in other people's shoes. I just know that I'm really annoyed....
What would you do? Would you ask him to fuck off and go bake muffins, or would you just keep helping him? What do you think? Am I a selfish prick? Thanks for listening. I feel slightly better now.
Anyway I got to know this one guy which is in Engineering Physics too through an engineering project. At first he was just alright to me, he seems nice but not too interesting to me. This year I happen to share some same courses with me. I am taking 8 courses this term (well effectively 6 since I basically ignored 1 unless there is midterms and another one is just a one-credit course) and I have been trying to be more involved in the Seri Malaysia Club's events. Anyway we just pulled off this event tonight with another 5 South East Asian clubs which was pretty awesome. To get a rough idea, see http://eatseafood.blogspot.com/.
But anyway back to the main topic, even though I'm busy as hell, I try to get my work done by myself right. And this guy has been asking me about assignments for these past few weeks now. And he has been asking me to just give him my assignments just the day before/on which the assignment is due. He even texted me, msned me and asked me face-to-face to give him my assignment, which is really annoying.... I mean once or twice it's ok, but if you keep asking people for their assignment solution it's unacceptable to me. I mean come on dude, how hard is that assignment that you are always so desperate to get the solutions right before it's due. You're in engineering physics man, and it's not for slackers. And if you wanna slack go ahead it's your choice, leave me alone. I don't care about your excuses, whether if it's bad time management yada yada.... Just stop harassing me! And he never talks to me unless it's about borrowing assignments.... I guess that's why it's bothering me so much... this guy is just using me for solutions. If it's a friend whom I usually talk to and exchange solutions with, then it's totally fine... because we complement each other. Whereas this guy, he's just a leech and it's a one-way interaction....
Aih, I know if I think about it rationally then his fault might be minor. But I'm so tired of thinking in other people's shoes. I just know that I'm really annoyed....
What would you do? Would you ask him to fuck off and go bake muffins, or would you just keep helping him? What do you think? Am I a selfish prick? Thanks for listening. I feel slightly better now.